Guide for gay men and women dating with couples for swinger lifestyle


January 23, 2021

It is really a great way for a single gay man and woman dating with a couple to have gay threesomes or swinger lifestyle. It is called a gay threesome dating which always involves three people in bed at the same time. If you are a single woman planning to find a couple for a threesome dating, you’d better read the following guide that would be helpful for you to have a prefect dating with your partners.

Full communication about your boundaries

Maybe you have mentioned you boundaries to your partners on website or app before, but it is needed to spend several minutes to set the ground rules. If you are not ready for any kind of sexual behavior in a threesome, you’d better speak out what you want to do and what don’t want to do because sometimes a perfect gay threesome dating is ruined by excessive behaviors.

Use condoms and general protection

In fact, so many people are infected with STDs or HIV when they are having sex with strangers without any protective measures. You must be aware that using condoms is the most effective and convenient way to protect yourself and your partners being infected with STDs or HIV. So you should ask the husband to wear a condom. Keep in mind that health is the most important thing in your life when enjoying sex.

Do not try to meet one of them alone

Since they are a couple, you’d better not date with the husband or wife alone after the gay threesome dating. If you go out with one of them, the other one will be left out which would upset him/her while knowing the truth. Even if it isn’t your fault, you maybe will be involved in troubles that you haven’t expected. Once you receive invitation from only one of the couple, you should refuse it and don’t any longer have a threesome dating with them.

Be careful about jealousy

Though the couple has come to an agreement to have a threesome, in fact, it is the husband who convinced the wife to join it most of the time. It is possible that the wife is not actually willing to engage in a threesome. If you feel something not good during the dating, you should ask them to stop it.

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